👨🏻‍💻19 Rules for Happy Relationships: Simple Strategies for Better Communication, Lasting Love, and Deeper Connection | A Practical Guide to Building Relationships for Gen Z by IRS Debotosh Chatterjee

BOOK DETAILS : 

• Publisher ‏ : ‎ Srishti Publishers & Distributors
• Publication date ‏ : ‎ 10 November 2025
• Edition ‏ : ‎ First Edition
• Language ‏ : ‎ English
• Print length ‏ : ‎ 136 pages
• ISBN-10 ‏ : ‎ 9364112237
• ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 978-9364112239

ABOUT THE AUTHOR : 

Debotosh Chatterjee is an Officer in the Indian Revenue Service (IRS). He cleared the prestigious UPSC Civil Service Examination in his very first attempt, right after graduating from Jadavpur University (Kolkata) as a Chemical Engineer. He has worked for the Government of India in several important and sensitive assignments, which have given him a bird’s eye view of human society. Debotosh advocates pragmatism as the much-needed antidote to several pressing issues of life and considers himself to be a hard-headed realist. Debotosh maintains his social media presence on Quora, where he has more than 62 thousand followers.

BOOK REVIEW :

In an age of ghosting, blurred boundaries, and emotional confusion, 19 Rules for Happy Relationships feels like a practical handbook for modern connections. IRS Debotosh Chatterjee approaches relationships not as fairy tales, but as living systems that require structure, clarity, and conscious effort.

Built around 19 clear principles, the book covers everything from romance and friendship to family and workplace dynamics. What stands out is its no-nonsense tone. Instead of abstract advice, the author offers actionable insights, like treating trust as a “bank” that compounds over time, understanding your own nature before judging others, and recognizing why excitement is often mistaken for compatibility.

Chapters on self-worth, boundaries, the “Nice Person Syndrome,” and the idea that people rarely change are particularly impactful. The book also introduces “enlightened selfishness”, a balanced approach to protecting your needs without damaging relationships.

The writing is simple, structured, and easy to apply; perfect for Gen Z and young adults navigating modern relationship complexities. It doesn’t sugarcoat heartbreak but frames it as part of growth.

⭐ Rating: 4.8/5

If you’re looking for a practical toolkit rather than poetic love advice, this book offers grounded strategies to build stronger, healthier, and more resilient relationships.

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